Bellamy / Willmot Family of Durban, South Africa
December 27, 2020 - 1:18:31 p.m.

Looking for living relatives of this family that lived at Bluff, Durban for a lady researching this area for a book. 

Willmot Family
November 17, 2020 - 3:14:41 p.m.

Thanks to Bridgette for sending me details on some of the South African Willmot Family

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My Tolliss and Berger Family History Journey

In February 2000 after my adopted parents had both died, I decided to try and found out about my natural parents. With the help of the internet and by putting my birth surname of Tolliss into google. Another Tolliss was selling his car at the time so I contacted him with a carefully worded email. This distant cousin told me I had a 1st cousin who lived in Australia and he contacted him on my behalf. Hence I saw the first pictures of my mother. There was no fathers name on the birth certificate and as no-one in the family knew about me, there is little chance of finding out about him. However the information from these 2 people, who welcomed this stranger into their family, fed my desire to find out more about my new family.

The Tolliss name can be spelt with one S or two according to whomever was recording the event at the time. The family in the UK has included occupations ranging from Farm Labourers to Doctors. Where I have the most information is in the 19th century. The Tolliss family inhabited the East London area. Two generations worked in the Silk Industry and Brushmaking . It is in the mid 19th century, when part of the Tolliss family moved from London to Birmingham and diversified into different occupations. I believe I have found more members of the family in Norfolk, spelt with one S. The appearance of Rodwell as a first name occurs in 1749 in New Buckenham.

My Grandfather Frederick was a Grocer. He moved to Brighton from London where he met his wife Florence. They had three children and emigrated to Durban, South Africa, but returned a few years later to London and eventually separated. My Grandfather returned to Durban with his two sons Eric and Guy known as Jack and also his sister in law Emma Guy. My Grandmother and her daughter stayed in London. The daughter Lilian (my mother) was an actress, stage name Zetta Morenta and her greatest claim to fame was acting as a double for Gracie Fields in 3 of her films. Sing as you Go 1934, Look Up and Laugh 1935 and Queen of Hearts 1936. She also appeared on the stage in London and the provinces. Some photos of her appear in the gallery. I have also found online Zettas name mentioned as part of variety acts at the Alhambra, Leicester Sq and the Coliseum Theatres through the years 1925-1930

One of the reasons for them emigrating to South Africa was Ellen Louise (Fredericks sister) marriage to Harry D'Urban Holmes Crozier who was born in Durban. Ellen and Harry divorced in 1900. Harry went on to remarry twice more. Harrys father was a solicitor and grandfather a ship owner/master mariner.

My Great Grandfather James was a traveller, trading in the silk industry. His wife Louisa Sophia Clark was a fourth generation descendant of Lewis Berger the paint manufacturer. Lewis was a subject of a colourful 'biography' written by Jeffrey Farnol in the 1920s called a “Portrait of a Gentleman in Colours”. It tells of Lewis's move to London in 1760 from Frankfurt and his endeavour in making the colour Prussian Blue a marketable commodity. Originally named Louis Steigenberger he simplified his name to Lewis Berger in about 1766. Also marrying Elizabeth Alger shortly afterwards. A more detailed biography was called “A Century and a Half of Berger”, written by Lewis Berger's Gt Gt Grandson Thomas Brereton Berger. A photo of Richmond house that Thomas lived in is in the gallery.

Circa 1780 Lewis & Elizabeth moved from the Shadwell/Ratcliff area of London to nearby Homerton. There they found a house and he built his factory. He made 12 dry colour pigments by 1790, increasing them by 7 more, also selling black lead, sulphur, sealing wax and mustard. In 1785 they opened offices at Well Court in Cheapside. It is believed the Doulton factory in Lambeth also purchased some of his paints for decorating their pottery.

Link to Berger Paint employees reunion page
Thanks to John Cain for sending me the above information.

Link to Bergerpaints website

Lewis Berger appeared at the Old Bailey as a victim of theft on 3 occasions, below are the links to the relevant pages.1. RICHARD SHARPLIN, THOMAS RICE, theft: simple grand larceny, 03/06/1778. 2. FIDELY MILLARD, ELEANOR SANDERSON, theft: burglary, receiving stolen goods, 13/09/1780. 3. SAMUEL JACKSON, theft: burglary, 11 May 1796.

The family tree contains all the names that I know of with the Berger connection. Also some pictures of the Berger family and the houses etc are in the gallery. Also in the gallery there are pictures of the extended Berger family.

I have tried to find out more on the Guy side of the family that being my Grandmothers maiden name.

I met a 2nd cousin on that side who has furnished me with new photos of my mother, plus some of my grandmother, her siblings and her parents and their extended family. He also met my mother in the 1930s (she had 2 whippets) and backstage in London in 1948, when she was appearing in the West End in The Perfect Woman at the Haymarket theatre.

I have also met a very distant cousin with the Guy surname, our connection goes back 10 generations.

In 2005, I have extended the Clark family as Henry Clark (Gt Gt Gt Grandfather) who married firstly Louisa Berger, who died soon after the birth of her second son, married secondly Mary Stewart and had 11 more children.

I went to Newnham, Kent and found Henry Clarks grave, (picture in the gallery).

I am also working on the Stokes side of the family that married into the Pamphilon and Guenigault family, making new contacts with both Pamphilon and Guenigault members. There is a photo of Adolphus Stokes grave in the gallery. I have also had a great amount of information supplied by the Sharp side of the Berger family.

In 2009 I flew to Australia to meet my first cousin and his wife there. I went back in 2015 and saw them again. They have been pleased that I have contacted them and added information about our family. I also met and stayed with more distant cousins on the Tolliss side.

It has been a rewarding and pleasurable experience that all the new family members I have met are friendly and helpful. A big thank you to all the family, near and extended that have helped the tree to grow.

Grateful thanks to the following members of the Berger, Tolliss, Clark, Guy and related families in helping me with my research

Robert Tolliss, Anthony Tolliss, Dawn Pinfield, Tessa King (SA),Perry Miles, Olive P Sharp, Ian Herbert, Pat Barnes, Margaret Kyle, Deryck Skinner, Chrissie Gee, Philippa Wilks, Penny Morgan, Laraine Hake, Ruth Taylor, Sue Donlea, Derek Lemarchand, John Ablitt and Margaret Scott.

John K Clark, David K Ballance, Peter Guy, Richard Lloyd, Alan Edwards, Jane Hughes, Garry Williams, James Couzens, Richard Pailthorpe, Kimberly McDonnell, Fiona Shaw, Mike Spence, Shirley Rowe, Christopher Thomson, Alastair Honeybun, Charlie Mackie, Adrian Wright, Margaret Castell, Mark Stevens, Margaret Parkes, Jan Ward, David Eustace, Robert Tompsett, Tony Kirkman, Ann Peters, Amanda Kilmister, Robin Griffiths, Valerie Ward, Martin Mitchell, Rob Trulock and Garth Houltham.

Tolliss and Berger
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Marion BATTERSBYBATTERSBY,MarionJanuary 26, 1926149595Birth
Caroline Freda COWLEYCOWLEY,Caroline FredaJanuary 26, 1923159898Birth
James Adrian Coleridge KENNARDKENNARD,James Adrian ColeridgeJanuary 26, 1922169999Birth
Frank POWNALLPOWNALL,FrankJanuary 26, 191617105105Death
Norman Tom BELLAMYBELLAMY,Norman TomJanuary 26, 191618105105Birth
Herbert Colin GATESGATES,Herbert ColinJanuary 26, 191019111111Birth
Robert Ernest WACHERWACHER,Robert ErnestJanuary 26, 190620115115Birth
Marjorie Ethel VAILEVAILE,Marjorie EthelJanuary 26, 190621115115Birth
Clotilde Marie PARSONSPARSONS,Clotilde MarieJanuary 26, 190422117117Birth
Captain Desmond Harry ADAIR OBEADAIR,Desmond Harry OBEJanuary 26, 189723124124Birth
Doris Evelyn CAUDWELLCAUDWELL,Doris EvelynJanuary 26, 189524126126Birth
Mary Blanche FRENDFREND,Mary BlancheJanuary 26, 189525126126Birth
Florence Hamilton LIGHTONLIGHTON,Florence HamiltonJanuary 26, 189426127127Birth
Henriette Elizabeth SOUCHAYSOUCHAY,Henriette ElizabethJanuary 26, 189327128128Death
Jessie HOLTOMHOLTOM,JessieJanuary 26, 189328128128Birth
Mary Doris DRYSDALEDRYSDALE,Mary DorisJanuary 26, 189329128128Birth
Emily Ellen TOLLISSTOLLISS,Emily EllenJanuary 26, 188630135135Birth
Stephen LIVINGLIVING,StephenJanuary 26, 188631135135Death
Mary Rivett BATEMANBATEMAN,Mary RivettJanuary 26, 188532136136Death
Robert McNAMARAMacNAMARA,RobertJanuary 26, 188433137137Birth
Ethel Ruby HILLHILL,Ethel RubyJanuary 26, 188334138138Birth
Henrietta Louise CRAWSHAYCRAWSHAY,Henrietta LouiseJanuary 26, 188335138138Death
Joseph Cleaver RIXONRIXON,Joseph CleaverJanuary 26, 187836143143Birth
Walter Henry WINSLADEWINSLADE,Walter HenryJanuary 26, 187737144144Birth
Peter GUYGUY,PeterJanuary 26, 187638145145Death
Kathleen Eliza DIXONDIXON,Kathleen ElizaJanuary 26, 187639145145Birth
James ASKERASKER,JamesJanuary 26, 187540146146Death
Ella Elizabeth RANDLERANDLE,Ella ElizabethJanuary 26, 187341148148Birth
Alice Mary LOTONLOTON,Alice MaryJanuary 26, 187042151151Birth
Ellen APPLEYARDAPPLEYARD,EllenJanuary 26, 186843153153Birth
Harvey Berrow TYMBSTYMBS,Harvey BerrowJanuary 26, 186744154154Death
Anna Maud GAVILLERGAVILLER,Anna MaudJanuary 26, 186545156156Birth
Frederick Walter BURNANDBURNAND,Frederick WalterJanuary 26, 186046161161Birth
John Charles BOISBOIS,John CharlesJanuary 26, 184847173173Birth
Jane SETTLESETTLE,JaneJanuary 26, 184048181181Birth
Vincent Havilland RIVAZRIVAZ,Vincent HavillandJanuary 26, 183149190190Death
Richard Pritchett BACONBACON,Richard PritchettJanuary 26, 182650195195Birth
Charles Nicholas COLECOLE,Charles NicholasJanuary 26, 181151210210Birth
Henry MIDLANEMIDLANE,HenryJanuary 26, 181152210210Birth
Sir Timothy Vansittart STONHOUSESTONHOUSE,Timothy VansittartJanuary 26, 179953222222Birth
Maria THOMASTHOMAS,MariaJanuary 26, 178254239239Birth
Charles POWLETTPOWLETT,CharlesJanuary 26, 177655245245Death
John Carr ANDERSON + Mary Ann Beatrice IVESANDERSON,John Carr + IVES,Mary Ann BeatriceJanuary 26, 191656105105Marriage
Rev William Richardson LINTON + Alice SHIRLEYLINTON,William Richardson + SHIRLEY,AliceJanuary 26, 188757134134Marriage
Lt Col Sir James COLQUHOUN + Anna Maria ELLIOTCOLQUHOUN,James + ELLIOT,Anna MariaJanuary 26, 187658145145Marriage
Jonas Hamilton TRAVERS + Rosamund St Leger Shirley HILLTRAVERS,Jonas Hamilton + HILL,Rosamund St Leger ShirleyJanuary 26, 185059171171Marriage
Richard DUDNEY + Martha BESTDUDNEY,Richard + BEST,MarthaJanuary 26, 184860173173Marriage
William JONES + Abigail HEUDEBOURCKJONES,William + HEUDEBOURCK,AbigailJanuary 26, 184061181181Marriage
George POLLARD + Mary KNIGHTPOLLARD,George + KNIGHT,MaryJanuary 26, 180462217217Marriage
Charles CARPENTER + Jane PARRISCARPENTER,Charles + PARRIS,JaneJanuary 26, 178563236236Marriage
Paul TURQUAND + Marie Catherine TURQUANDTURQUAND,Paul + TURQUAND,Marie CatherineJanuary 26, 173964282282Marriage
William ELVY + Margaret SOUTHERSELVY,William + SOUTHERS,MargaretJanuary 26, 173465287287Marriage
Thomas TOLLISS + Rebecca VAUGHANTOLLISS,Thomas + VAUGHAN,RebeccaJanuary 26, 171866303303Marriage
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Ellen Bertha THOMPSONJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:17:57 p.m.jackie1611677877THOMPSON,Ellen Bertha
Harry Percy HARRISONJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:16:39 p.m.jackie1611677799HARRISON,Harry Percy
Frances Mary Christine THOMPSONJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:15:25 p.m.jackie1611677725THOMPSON,Frances Mary Christine
Harry Percy HARRISON + Frances Mary Christine THOMPSONJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:11:05 p.m.jackie1611677465HARRISON,Harry Percy + THOMPSON,Frances Mary Christine
Alfred Llewelyn Vining BAKER + Frances Mary Christine THOMPSONJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:03:39 p.m.jackie1611677019BAKER,Alfred Llewelyn Vining + THOMPSON,Frances Mary Christine
Alfred Llewelyn Vining BAKERJanuary 26, 2021 - 4:02:25 p.m.jackie1611676945BAKER,Alfred Llewelyn Vining
Mary Vining BAKERJanuary 26, 2021 - 3:44:40 p.m.jackie1611675880BAKER,Mary Vining
Archibald Henry James THOMPSONJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:51:46 p.m.jackie1611669106THOMPSON,Archibald Henry James
Archibald Henry James THOMPSON + Mary Vining BAKERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:50:24 p.m.jackie1611669024THOMPSON,Archibald Henry James + BAKER,Mary Vining
John Cecil BERGERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:41:05 p.m.jackie1611668465BERGER,John Cecil
Rev Arthur Hastings BERGERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:40:10 p.m.jackie1611668410BERGER,Arthur Hastings
Capel Henry BERGERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:39:20 p.m.jackie1611668360BERGER,Capel Henry
Louisa Jane BERGERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:37:58 p.m.jackie1611668278BERGER,Louisa Jane
Marie Antoinette ZANNETTINIJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:29:47 p.m.jackie1611667787ZANNETTINI,Marie Antoinette
John Dobbs BERGERJanuary 26, 2021 - 1:26:34 p.m.jackie1611667594BERGER,John Dobbs